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Brotherhood Spotlights

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What Emotional Abuse Looks Like

Emotional abuse doesn’t leave black eyes or broken bones. That’s why so many men miss it. You tell yourself it wasn’t that bad. You explain it away as stress, miscommunication, or your fault.

Exploited for Status

Financially Exploited Immigrants

Let’s be clear: Not every immigrant man is chasing a green card. Some of us came on vacation or for work... What we didn’t expect? Becoming a paycheck with a heartbeat, controlled by a woman who targets immigrants to fall in love with her just so she can use our immigration status a weapon against us. Financially exploiting immigrants is actually an ongoing crime that affects thousands of immigrants every year.

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Myths vs. Facts: Domestic Violence Against Men

There’s a lot of misinformation out there about abuse against men. Some people don’t believe it happens—or worse, they make guys feel like it’s their fault. Let’s break down the myths and facts so you know the truth.

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"I honestly didn’t know there were resources out there for men like me. This site helped me recognize the abuse for what it was, and gave me real next steps I could take. No fluff — just solid, grounded help when I needed it most.".
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— Jason M., Oregon
"Reading this site was the first time I felt seen as a man who had been hurt. I wasn’t just losing my marriage — I was losing my sense of self. Brotherhood Institute gave me something to hold onto. It reminded me I wasn’t crazy. I wasn’t alone."
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— Marcus R., Georgia
"Most sites talk down to you or assume you're the problem. This one didn’t. It called out abuse for what it is — even when the abuser’s a woman. That honesty is rare. I’m not here for sympathy. I’m here to get my life back. This place gets that."
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— Daniel T., California

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