about the founder

The Founder

This isn’t a company. It’s personal.

The Brotherhood Institute was created by someone who knows what it feels like to be isolated, manipulated, and made to question his own worth. Someone who stayed silent for too long — not because he was weak, but because his culture and society told him men should “tough it out.”

about the founder
about the founder

That someone is me. I am the founder and I am a survivor of Domestic Violence and Abuse. I didn’t expect to end up in an abusive marriage, nor did I ever imagine it would leave him financially broken, emotionally exhausted, and legally vulnerable. But it did.

And that experience — painful as it was — sparked a mission: to create the space he wished existed during his worst moments.

My story is the backbone of this project, because nobody knows how domestic violence affects men as somebody that lived through it. I created this website for men as they are grossly overlooked when it comes to available resources for them but, regardless of gender and sexual orientation everyone is free to use the available content on his website to find support and hopefully, a way out of their abusive relationship.

This site is that space and you are always welcome here.


I’ve kept everything here free because I know what it’s like to need help and find nothing. But right now, I’m also fighting my own legal battle to stay in this country — one that could determine whether Brotherhood Institute continues to exist.

If this work has helped you, or you believe it needs to reach more men like us, I hope you’ll take a moment to read why I started our Patreon.

It’s not about perks. It’s about keeping a promise.

➡️ [Read the Story on Patreon]