You’ve walked through hell—and now you want to make sure someone else doesn’t have to.
I’m not here to give you pity. I’m here to give you the truth, the tools, and the push you need to fight back. I survived domestic violence in my first and only marriage—not because the system helped me, but because I refused to let it break me. When I searched for help, every door was marked “for women only.” That’s when I realized—if men are going to get justice, we have to build our own way out. The Brotherhood Institute exists to do exactly that.
If you are curious about my experience, please visit about the founder
Once you’ve been through abuse, healing isn’t always the final chapter — sometimes it’s the start of a new mission. This section is for men who feel the pull to step up for others walking the same road they once did. Whether you’re ready to speak out, guide a friend, or build safe spaces in your community, these articles will help you do it with strength, clarity, and impact. Helping others isn’t just good for them — it’s a powerful step in your own recovery.
Here you can find related articles you can use to help other males survive domestic violence
Encrypted Abuse Log
Ever thought about writing it down? Do you even need an abuse log?You Don’t Have to Prove It to Me — But You Might Have to Prove It One Day. Look, I get it. You are not the type to write down your feelings.You probably think you can handle it. Maybe you are telling yourself […]
Read More
Understanding Your Options: A Guide to Professional Help for Male Victims of Domestic Violence
Abuse leaves scars that aren’t always visible. The emotional damage—anxiety, depression, anger, shame—can linger long after the physical threats are gone. Ignoring these wounds doesn’t make them disappear; it lets them fester. The sooner you take action, the easier it is to rebuild. This guide breaks down the types of professionals who can help, the therapy styles […]
Read More
Raising Awareness Without Reliving the Trauma
Raising Awareness about male abuse is extremely important mostly so society acknowledges it exists and local government stops closing the doors to male victims when they need help or resources the most. You want to speak up.You want to help others.You want to raise awareness about abuse… But every time you try, it drags you […]
Read More
Sharing Your Story Online
Telling your story can change lives. But doing it online?That comes with risks — and even responsibilities. If you’re thinking about sharing your story online safely, the goal is clear: Reach others without exposing yourself to further harm. Here’s how to protect your peace while using your voice. Why It’s Powerful (And Risky) to Share […]
Read More
How to Talk About Abuse Without Sounding Like a Victim
Talking about abuse doesn’t always mean you have to be the perpetual victim. You are allowed to recover from it, and I have faith you will recover from it. But it is important to talk about your experience to other men, to warn them about possible red flags to look for or to help them […]
Read More
How to Support a Male Friend Who’s Being Abused
I hope nobody would have to experience abuse from someone they love, the truth is, it happens and quite often. Whether you is you the one in a toxic or abusive relationship or something is happening to a friend of yours, its important to know how to support a male friend who is being abused. […]
Read More
