You don’t need to fight this alone. Real help exists — and it’s made for you.
If you’re in danger, hurting, or feel like your life has fallen apart, this is your first step forward.
We understand what it’s like to be a man in crisis. Whether you’re dealing with emotional abuse, manipulation, threats, financial control, or physical violence — you deserve support, protection, and healing.
Below are direct links to resources specifically for male survivors. No judgment. No shame. Just help.
⚠️ If You’re in Immediate Danger
Call 911 – If you’re being threatened or physically harmed, don’t hesitate. You have the right to protection.
Tell someone you trust – A friend, family member, coworker — don’t isolate yourself.
📞 Crisis & Mental Health Hotlines for Men
National Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: 988
Available 24/7. Confidential. Speak to someone now.
SAMHSA Mental Health Hotline: 1-800-662-HELP (4357)
Free help for addiction, mental health, and trauma recovery.
Men’s Helpline (USA):
There isn’t a single national helpline just for men — but we’re working to list state-based or private orgs below.
🛡️ Domestic Violence & Abuse Support for Men
The Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women:
📞 1-888-7HELPLINE (1-888-743-5754)
Offers support for male victims of domestic abuse.
Website: dahmw.org
HelpGuide.org – Male Abuse Resources:
Learn how to recognize abusive patterns against men and how to recover.
Website: helpguide.org
🧠 If You’re Not Okay Emotionally
BetterHelp and Talkspace both offer male therapists — search for someone who specializes in emotional abuse, masculinity, and trauma recovery.
Use our Mental Health Resources section to learn how to rebuild your self-worth after manipulation and isolation.
💼 If You Need to Escape Financial Control
Learn how to create a budget, open an account safely, or build credit without your abuser knowing.
Visit our Economics 101: Financial Freedom curriculum to start regaining your independence.
🧭 Need Help Leaving an Abusive Partner?
Document everything you can: screenshots, messages, bank records.
If you’re undocumented or legally married to your abuser, you may qualify for legal relief (e.g., VAWA visa). Consult a qualified immigration attorney or contact us for trusted referrals.
✋ You Matter. You’re Not Weak. You’re Not Alone.
Being abused doesn’t make you less of a man. Asking for help makes you more of one.
Brotherhood Institute is here to stand with you. We’ve been there. And we’re not going anywhere.