Encrypted Abuse Log
Ever thought about writing it down? Do you even need an abuse log?You Don’t Have to Prove It to Me — But You Might Have to Prove It One Day. Look, I get it. You are not the type to…
Category Helping Others
Understanding Your Options: A Guide to Professional Help for Male Victims of Domestic Violence
Abuse leaves scars that aren’t always visible. The emotional damage—anxiety, depression, anger, shame—can linger long after the physical threats are gone. Ignoring these wounds doesn’t make them disappear; it lets them fester. The sooner you take action, the easier it…
Raising Awareness Without Reliving the Trauma
Raising Awareness about male abuse is extremely important mostly so society acknowledges it exists and local government stops closing the doors to male victims when they need help or resources the most. You want to speak up.You want to help…
Sharing Your Story Online
Telling your story can change lives. But doing it online?That comes with risks — and even responsibilities. If you’re thinking about sharing your story online safely, the goal is clear: Reach others without exposing yourself to further harm. Here’s how…
How to Talk About Abuse Without Sounding Like a Victim
Talking about abuse doesn’t always mean you have to be the perpetual victim. You are allowed to recover from it, and I have faith you will recover from it. But it is important to talk about your experience to other…
How to Support a Male Friend Who’s Being Abused
I hope nobody would have to experience abuse from someone they love, the truth is, it happens and quite often. Whether you is you the one in a toxic or abusive relationship or something is happening to a friend of…
How to Tell Your Story Without Oversharing
If you’re wondering how to tell your story without oversharing, you’re not alone.You want to speak up — but you also want to protect yourself.You want to raise awareness — without reliving the trauma. Telling your story can feel powerful.It…
Why There Are No Shelters for Men (And What You Can Do)
Let’s not sugarcoat it: **if you’re a man fleeing abuse, your options are slim to none.** While women’s shelters exist in almost every city, **domestic violence shelters for men are practically invisible.** And if you’ve tried calling for help, you probably heard…
How To Encourage Him To Get Help
Intro “I don’t need help.”“I’ve got it under control.”“Talking to someone won’t fix anything.” Sound familiar? Male victims of domestic violence often resist help because they’ve been taught that real men: Don’t complain Handle things on their own Stay strong,…
When To Step In – And When To Step Back
Intro “Should I say something… or is it not my place?” When you’re watching someone you care about suffer — especially a man who won’t admit he’s in an abusive relationship — it’s hard to know what to do. Step…