abuse inside marriage hides behind normal life
Many men stay silent because they believe nobody will take them seriously
Having an abusive wife or husband can destroy your life and your entire family!
Patterns matter more than excuses
FRAMEWORK
Spot it
Notice recurring behaviors that damage your independence. If you end up with an abusive wife or an abusive husband, chances are they did not show their true colors until you tied the knot
Name it
Control, financial pressure, manipulation, intimidation, physical violence...
Record it
Keeping a timeline of incidents and help you understand the level of abuse you have been subject to. It can also help you to remember the details of each incident.
File it
Having the right information with the right details can help you corroborate your story and to show a clear picture of the type of abuses you endured.
what it looks like
- Financial control or restriction
- Threats involving children or custody
- Constant criticism and humiliation
- Isolation from friends and family
- Emotional manipulation after arguments
