Dating someone Abusive

Dating someone abusive is often difficult to recognize at first. Control, jealousy, manipulation, and isolation can slowly become normal in a relationship. This page helps you identify the early signs and understand what these patterns look like

early signs matter

YOU DON’T WAIT FOR PROOF

KEEP RECEIPTS!

Learn more about our Encrypted Abuse Log

FRAMEWORK

  • Spot it

    Recognize behaviors that signal control and manipulation

  • Name it

    Understand the reason behind those abuse behaviors

  • Record it

    Keeping documentation of any sketchy situations can help you have clarity about the abuse

  • File it

    Organize your information if you ever need support or evidence to protect yourself

what it looks like

  • Isolation disguised as love
  • Financial pressure
  • Jealousy framed as protection
  • Monitoring cellphone, messages, emails...
  • Getting upset for minor things

keep receipts

BUILD YOUR EVIDENCE FILE

START YOUR EVIDENCE FILE!

essential reads
for those dating an abuser

control has patterns
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